January 19th, 2012. That marks a significant day for our family. The last day that Kaylee went to 1st grade. It marked the decision we made to home school. After a series of events with her in 1st grade, and also events starting clear back in preschool and kindergarten, with years and years of promptings, Jarom and I decided that homeschooling would be best for our family. I was originally just going to do it for the rest of the school year and then we would re-evaluate for next year. But, the more I home school, the more I am learning about it and the awesomeness of it. So the more I want to do it for longer. And a huge bonus…. the kids LOVE it!! Of course, since we have 4 smalls in the house, it is not possible to just home school 1 of them. So what happened? I now home school 4 smalls. Originally it was just planned to home school Kaylee. I even left Makayla in preschool through the YMCA because I love her teacher and her class and the things they do and learn. But, that’s not ok with the smalls to let Kaylee have all the lessons. So since we have started homeschooling, Makayla is now reading pretty well, Kiera now knows half the alphabet, and Damen has learned several colors and shapes and is pretty close to being potty trained. Not that potty training has anything to do with homeschooling, but it’s pretty amazing how our lives have changed. For one, I am a much happier mom. I hesitated on homeschooling for the longest time because I thought I would end up killing someone if not myself. That is not a very pleasant sentence, but truthful. I didn’t think I could take it. Having 4 smalls in the house means that I am borderline crazy most of the time. So why would I choose to add to that craziness? But the exact opposite happened. We have more productive days. Happier days. We get more done and we somehow, somehow, have more time in the day. I don’t know how and I don’t know why, all I know is that it is AWESOME. Seriously, I am so grateful for the leap of faith I took to do it. It’s not perfect by any means, but it is pretty great. Of course, Kaylee has her grumpy days. She is in a grumpy phase where it seems that that’s her favorite attitude, but once I can convince to start, it goes pretty well. Plus, there is an INCREDIBLE homeschooling group here in town that is so awesome. It’s a bunch of homeschooling families that get together once a month for a field trip and then the moms meet once a month in addition to that to talk about this & that and help & support each other. These veteran moms are full of knowledge and experience. They have been so incredibly awesome to hear about and learn from. For such a small town, the group is pretty big. And did I mention awesome? So yes, I am happy with our decision. Do I know how long we’ll do it? No. But I do know it’s going to be for longer than what we had originally planned.
So here’s what homeschooling has been like for us so far. And remember, I’m a rookie at this. I’m sure I’ll look back and laugh and gasp and who knows what else as we go further down this road. But for now, it’s a good start….
We start every day with breakfast as a family. I get up and make breakfast… usually pancakes, waffles, or french toast for the family and we all eat together before Dad heads off to work. (This isn’t new, just going through the routine.) Then, after breakfast, I clean up and do dishes while the girls do their Morning Duties. This includes, making their beds and saying their morning prayers, then getting dressed and brushing their teeth. Yes, sometimes it’s pretty amazing how a 5 year old (Makayla) comes down the stairs dressed for the day. But hey, she did it. My 3 year old (Kiera) comes down the stairs in just her jammy shirt and undies and asks me to help her take off her shirt and then put her clothes on. Her bed looks like someone slid off the top end of it while holding onto the sheets, but hey, she made it. Kaylee always does a pretty good job and Damen, well he’s only 1. It’s not happening. After everyone is ready, including myself, we start our day. This usually happens at about 9. We start our school day with reading the scriptures and saying family prayer. Then we say the Pledge of Allegiance.

Then we go over the calendar. What day of the week it is (sing the Day of the Week song), what the date is, and what month it is. After that, we work on learning the Articles of Faith. It’s quite the process when the kids range from ages 7 to 1. Quite a learning curve going on here. Everything actually has been quite a learning curve. It’s pretty challenging to keep Kaylee focused while keeping the attention of the others. But, I have learned that since Kaylee learns faster, she can help me teach, which she LOVES since she LOVES to be in charge. After that, I get each of the kids started on their day. Sometimes the day goes better when we start with a craft since all of my kids are quite crafty. This day was one of the very first days and it was pretty easy to target all of the ages. We did a craft by gluing beans onto a piece of paper. Kaylee did my phone number, Makayla did her last name, and Kiera did the letter ‘D’. Damen sat in his highchair and ate! He’s loves to eat. Alllll of the time.

What I have learned to love about homeschooling is that learning can be so fun. And children are SO SMART if and when they are applied. Seriously, just teach them…. anything. And they will learn it. I teach them individually and together. One of our very first “together” lessons was on gravity. It was pretty fun to teach them about gravity and to see their little minds learning about the concept. Our first science experiment was to teach them how gravity pulls things down. So after our lesson we got a cookie sheet with baby powder on it and then a glass full of colored water. Then we dropped the water onto the cookie sheet and watched the balls of water roll down. It was pretty neat. And all of the kids were fascinated. And they all totally understood gravity after we were done!

Sometimes I have to put Damen in his highchair to keep him contained, but let me tell you, he has learned SO MUCH by watching his sisters and listening to them learn. He has spent quite a bit of time sitting in his highchair just watching and observing and learning all about what’s going on. He now talks like one of his sisters… nonstop. And he’s a pretty smart little buddy. The changes I’ve already seen have been pretty awesome. In everyone, not just him.



I have learned that learning is not just about sitting at a desk and being taught. In order to really learn, you must be involved. I have come to really understand the Chinese Proverb, “Tell me and I’ll forget, show me and I may remember, involve me and I’ll understand.” So true. I love it. I love that I have learned that
I love that my kids are really learning.
Then we spent about a week on the Food Pyramid. We learned what it was and about all of the different food groups. Then we learned all about how important it is to take good care of our bodies. Then we made a grocery list with foods from all of the food groups and we went grocery shopping. The girls were in charge of getting the things from the food pyramid into the cart. It was quite the grocery shopping day, but it was fun for them! Then an activity I had Kaylee do was make a TV and do a commercial about the food pyramid. She was so excited about it and of course she loved teaching us.


When she was done she got a round of applause and then everyone else wanted in on the action.


Dad comes home for lunch everyday at noon. So that week we made sure we had a food from every food group on his plate when he came home!
Another lesson we did together was on plants and how they grow. We learned about the different parts of a plant and about seeds and where plants come from. We tied it into our gravity lesson from the previous week by talking about why roots grow down. Then we did an experiment with some seeds. We put some red beans into a bag with a damp paper towl and then taped them up on the wall. In a few days the beans started to sprout roots and they were headed down. Gravity was pulling them down. Then after several days when they were growing pretty good we untaped the bags and turned them upside down to see what would happen to the roots. What happened? Of course they started turning because gravity was pulling them down!! So it was fun to learn about seeds, roots, plants, and gravity all in one activity! The girls loved waking up every morning to check on their seeds. This is what they looked like after a few weeks.



Kiera (3) is working on her alphabet. I move on when she positively knows the letter and can write it. Sometimes it only takes a day, sometimes it takes a week. We are really struggling on the letter L. We are on week 2 with that little buggar. She just can’t get it. It’s either an I or a J. But, hey, perseverance and she’ll get it! Here is her collection of letters she has done so far.

J was quite a stinker too. That’s why there are 2 up there. When she gets a new letter, she gets to glue it to card stock, cut it out, color it, then we tape it up and start on writing it. Sometimes I’ll print worksheets off the Internet for her and sometimes she likes to practice writing her letters in a dry erase alphabet book we have. I’m at a loss for the letter L. We’ve tried everything. We’ll just keep learning it over and over.
Damen has found a new passion for Play-Doh. He LOVES it! And I love that he loves it. He is learning while he stays busy so I can focus on the others for a while. He has learned quite a few colors and a few shapes from playing with his beloved Play-Doh. He plays with it everyday. Several times a day. In fact, it’s been played with so much it’s getting dried out. It’s time to buy some more. Or, maybe we’ll make more as a project. I’m sure there is something we can learn from it.




After he rolls out his Play-Doh and gets a shape cut out, he’ll come running into the kitchen yelling the shape to show me. “STAR! STAR! STAR! See?” Then I’ll tell him good job and he’ll run back over to his table to do more. I love love love it!
We even had a lesson on different kinds of organisms. Reptiles, fish, amphibians, mammals, etc. I focused a little more on the fish. Each of the girls drew a picture of the fish and we learned about their scales, gills, and fins. Then I surprised them by telling them we were going to the fish store to buy a fish. So lo and behold, we have a pet fish named Jewels. (Even though it’s a boy.) The kids LOVE our fish. They each take turns feeding her (him) every morning and then the girls rotate cleaning the bowl. We’ve got a very kid proof, fish safe way of doing it! Welcome to our home Jewels.

I try to do a reading lesson everyday with Makayla while Damen and Kiera are napping and Kaylee has reading time. Then I also can work with Makayla and Kaylee on the more advanced lessons and learning. I try to wrap things up no later than 3 so that from from 3-4 I can do what I need to get done. 1 hour is not enough, but my priorities have definitely changed so it seems to somehow work out. Then I try to start dinner by 4 so that it’s ready by 5 when Jarom gets home from work. This is not a perfect life. Keep in mind I am saying, “I try to… ” That’s all it is. An effort. Not everyday goes as smoothly as I am making it sound. But, it’s worth the effort.
Our dining area has been converted into a school room. Each of the girls has their own drawer to keep their supplies and books in….

Then we had to buy a bigger book shelf to keep Kaylee’s curriculum in, Makayla’s reading books, and a few other books that won’t fit in the girls’ drawers. It works out pretty well….

And that’s the start of our homeschooling adventure! It’s been a crazy ride so far. Some days are so awesome and I am so happy that I love every minute of it! But, I have already had those days where I question the decision we made and I wonder if I am doing my children wrong by keeping them home. It’s definitely worth it though. Of course it’s going to be tough. Everything is. But for now, I think this is the best thing for our family. It’s amazing. I am so grateful for the promptings it took for me to get here. I hope I can continue doing my best and doing the best for the children. I have been more prayerful than I ever have been before asking for guidance in every aspect of my life. All I can do is try. I pray the rest will come. It’s all just about a leap of faith.